Where Does Your “Being” Come From? — Phenomenology for Bodyworkers

Introduction

The same procedure, and what happens differs from person to person. The same practitioner, and it differs from day to day. What is at issue there is not technique.

It is how the practitioner is present. So what is “Being,” and where does it come from? This is where the hand stops. Technique can be taught as steps; with “Being,” it isn’t clear how to teach it at all. Turn it into inspirational talk and you have said nothing.

There is a field that has worked on this question for a hundred years. Phenomenology.

I have been writing about this question for more than ten years — as records of my training, and as things I received from other schools of work. This page is a map of them. Start wherever you like.

One Way of Seeing

Here is the spine of it.

Phenomenology is not a theory but a method. Bracket what a theory assumes, and begin from what appears in experience. The procedure is called epoché — the suspension of judgment.

This reaches the table directly. A name makes the body of the person in front of you invisible. From where judgment is suspended, you wait for what is to show itself. And the principles are the frame that receives whatever appears.

“Being” is neither inspirational talk nor a technique; it can be taught as the first step of an exercise — the way of seeing shared by the articles below.

Start Here

One article takes up the connection between phenomenology and Rolfing directly. Rather than descending from philosophy, it starts on the table and climbs toward the concepts, tracing a line from Brentano to Goethe. Much of the framework I received in the 2025 Advanced Training came from one person, Jeff Maitland — a tenured professor of philosophy, a Zen monk, and a Certified Advanced Rolfer.

When a Name Appears, You Stop Seeing — What Phenomenology Changes in Practice

Start from What You Want to Know

If you want to knowRead
How phenomenology and Rolfing connectWhen a Name Appears, You Stop Seeing
Why you are taught “don’t judge”Case Presentation (2): After the Seventh Session
What “Being” isJeff Maitland’s Three QuestionsThe Difference Between Intention and Intentionality
How it can be cultivatedHow to Cultivate “Neutrality”
How a practitioner seesPrinciples and Observational Skills in Rolfing

Suspending Judgment

Much of what I was taught in the basic training came in the form of prohibitions. Don’t judge. Don’t point things out. At the time I couldn’t see why it had to be put that way. Ten years later, it got a name.

“Being,” and Neutrality

In the 2025 Advanced Training, “Being” became a procedure. Intention and intentionality are different; intentionality matters more than intention and more than technique. And there is a way of placing your own body that cultivates it.

From Other Schools, to the Same Place

“Being” also came in from outside Rolfing. Source Point Therapy, Jikiden Reiki, IMAC. I received the direction of gaining more knowledge and the direction of the practitioner receding, side by side, in the same period. Ten years later, they fit into a single frame.

Waiting

I had written about waiting from the side of coaching first — a subject I had before I knew Rolfing. In 2025 it was handed back to me as a way of placing the body.

Where to Go Next

There are other entry points into how Rolfing sees the body.

What We Know, and What We Don’t

What is presented here is what someone whose work is the body has taken from phenomenology, not an explanation of phenomenology itself.

And phenomenology has its critics. It told us to describe, but gave no trained procedure for doing so — Varela and his co-authors wrote that in 1991. Saying it changes nothing. The criticism applies just as much to the way of seeing presented here.

What is presented here renews how we take in the person our hands are touching. It promises no particular outcome. I want to keep the line between what is known and what isn’t drawn honestly.


Where you are seeing from is not something you can see by yourself. There is a point past which it only begins by having someone else look.

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